I have been procrastinating about posting because I wasn't sure how to say this. In the beginning of April Jack moved to Virginia to live with another family. It became clear to us that Jack and Alex should not live together, they both have many "past hurts" from their lives in Ukraine that need to heal. They can not heal when they are together. I know most of you won't understand this, but our social worker and other families who have adopted older siblings will. Jack hated living in the country and his new home is in the city. He is doing well, he calls us frequently and seems to like his new home and school. Since he left I have noticed a lot of positive things happening for both Alex and Matthew. Jack picked on them and impeded bonding, etc. We are starting to feel like a family now. There are many other reasons but I don't feel comfortable posting them on our blog for everyone to see.