Friday, December 05, 2008

Home Three weeks

We have been home three weeks now. Things are going just like we expected: some great days, some rough days.
Alex’s English has exploded, he has been placed back in the fourth grade classroom for Math, Science and Social Studies (instead of working on English all day). He likes PE but hates music. He has had fewer and fewer temper tantrums and has learned to play nicely with Matthew. He has gotten in trouble for hitting and pulling hair a couple times-but he understands he can’t do it here-that is how they lived in Ukraine-lots of rough play and the toughest gets the best.
Jack is a teenager-a good mood one day, grouchy the next. He seems to really like school and wrestling. He wrestled JV on Tuesday night, he was pinned but took it well and had fun. He is still with one teacher most of the day learning English. He tends to cause fights and screaming with Matthew and Alex but we are working on that. He is understanding a lot more English and when he is in a good mood even tries tell us things in English.
We went ice skating last weekend-all three boys had a lot of fun. Matthew had never been ice skating before, he used a little walker thing and was all over the rink. We also went swimming at a hotel for my sisters’ birthdays. They all three swam until exhaustion. We have been to church twice, Alex doesn’t like all the standing up and sitting down-just wait until he has to start kneeling.
We have also have the normal things to deal with that come with international adoption of older children. Jack doesn’t understand the concept of changing your clothes or dressing up-not wearing sweats to church. Alex thinks the girls at school are crazy because they talk nonstop. He also isn’t sure about teachers- he doesn’t understand why they are nice instead of yelling nonstop.
They aren’t picky eaters, they will eat just about anything. They really like summer sausage, potatoes, fruit and milk. It is amazing how much they go through.
Sorry for the long gap in posts, our laptop quit working. I have lots of pictures to post soon also.

5 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I just found you blog through
your comment on Christine's
blog-
Congratulations on your sons!
I have 2 sons ages 14 and 16-
14 is a very hard age, there
is so much peer pressure.
I have found that my sons
who are easy going- will
shut down if they are angry
or fustrated. It gets
so much better as they
get older.
I just keep on modeling
the behavior I want-
tell them I love them
even if the love isn't always
returned!
Good Luck- it is a real
adventure.
Lucie

10:34 AM, December 05, 2008  
Blogger Annie said...

Sounds to me like things are going GREAT! Ilya has been home a year and continues to speak mostly Russian. He understands English but his perfectionist nature makes it hard for him to try something and be made fun of (and Maxim, particularly, is glad to scoff).

Ilya HATES church. Sounds like you are Catholic? We are. I work at the church we attend, so chickened out and stopped bringing Ilya when Sergei told me he was giving the finger to people behind us. Great.

11:21 AM, December 05, 2008  
Blogger ArtworkByRuth said...

Three weeks for English explosion? Wow! That gives me hope for "O" who turns 15 this month...
Glad to see your updates! God Bless!

2:06 PM, December 05, 2008  
Blogger junglemama said...

Things sound like they are going pretty well. This Christmas is going to be interesting!

12:25 PM, December 08, 2008  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

They look so Happy in those Pics!!! we also are having are Good days and Bad days with our little Nadiya, More Good than bad she is adjusting quite well and has made several Friends, We Wish your Family the Best and a Very Merry Christmas God bless you from your Friends in Durham,Ct

7:28 PM, December 10, 2008  

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